Well Guys You Get What You Settle For.

  I have been thinking about this topic for the last few weeks or so, and it has been on my mind and I can’t help but think about how foolish some people are. It has come to my attention that there are a group of men who not only adore and admire ratchet women, and take them home, and treat them like a queen, and plead for their attention…BUT they also have the audacity to continue to yell how fucked up the so called black woman is.

 I’m lost here.

These same women you talk so badly about, the same women you wouldn’t dare have around your kids are the same women you choose to lie in bed with. The same women you have children with repeatedly, the same women you actually walked in the house to meet your mother. I’ve watched two people around me, who claim to want a good wholesome woman so badly, deal with the complete opposite, yet they are so tired of what has become of the black woman. Yet, in the next sentence hollers at the next chic you see with ass hanging out of her shorts for the public to see.  I’ve sat and watched two good women get completely looked over by these fools who were looking for “her”. He was so busy admiring trifling hoes he missed his chance. The other guy just wanted to hop on the first thing smoking, someone who will have nothing private to share with you because all of her private business has been out there…..but oh it’s just UNTIL he finds the right one. -_- Seriously guys. Yea I’m done hearing the complaints about what it is you are looking for in your life, because the moment its right in front of you, you look right over her at the half naked chic right next to her, and she sees that. So when she is no longer feeling you or that little interest she had is gone you gonna be mad or nah??

All your cries for the encouragement and support of a strong black woman, the love and affection of a woman who is nothing but a breath of fresh air to you, means nothing at all, not to me anyway. Why? I constantly see you chasing after and wanting the same women you talk shit about. It seems lust has a strong hold on you. You can’t turn down that woman’s wide hips and thick lips, so you know what don’t talk shit when the sink ships! And it will! You haven’t taken your time to even seek out a good woman, this woman you call yourself wanting and needing, has seen you indulge yourself in pure ratchet fuckery and now you want that good woman to notice you. It’s obvious what you desire and it definitely isn’t those admirable traits you described in the woman you spoke of long ago. The next time you speak of her, I will look at you like you have lost every single marble you’ve had. No sense of judicious thinking it’s only what you see that excites you, now you have slipped in that ratchet world you hated so much. So, deal with the consequences of your actions, whether its children, misery, an STD, whatever…that’s just what you get!  Thank you for supporting the ratchet movement don’t you ever, speak down on these women, don’t ever talk about you can’t find a good woman. Don’t you ever tell me that there are no good women around, and don’t think you deserve a good woman either, because from the actions you’re displaying you really don’t!   Stay in ratchet city that’s obviously where your standards are met.  She can be as sweet as she wants to be but yall still like chicks with no morals and no values. I don’t understand, yall are some confused brothas!